How would you feel if you saw these things happening right in front of you? 

1. A 13 year old boy saying to his female teacher , "Mam aap Sunny Leone lagte ho! "

2. Mother of a teenage boy complaining to the psychiatrist that his son watches his elder sister change clothes through the key hole.

3. 10 year old girl getting pregnant.

4.  A 2 year old kid keeping both his hands on his mothers breast pointing at her nipples respectively the moment he sees Sunny Leone dance on baby doll.

(This one is not funny I have seen this kid do it many times as he has access to all bollywood song videos on his 'Toy' specially meant for him 'iPhone'.)

How each one of us would react to the above situation shall be different, but before I share how I feel about these things I would request U to take this small test. 

Here it begins. Carefully observe the PIC A below.( Pls give it a continuous stare of min 10 seconds)

Done. Make sure you observed it properly?  You must have seen a young woman? Right? Cool lets proceed then. 

So here goes another pic B. But this one has to be super quick. 

Look at it.Quickly and v quickly. Tell me without giving it a second thought. What do u see??

 PIC B 

What did u see? A young beautiful woman. Wearing a necklace. Right?

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Now what if I say u ignoring another aspect to this pic n its an old lady in her 80's 

You might think I m kidding.??? Hmmmm!! No I m not. I m serious. It's an old woman too.

 Try watching it again. Could u see it? Still not convinced and thinking I m lying. I can help u. Pls scroll n carefully observe the PIC C  for some time. Its at the fag end of this article. 

Saw.? Did u see an old lady looking down in PIC C. I can still help u. Pls be patient. I m not trying to trick you at all. This whole thing will make a lot of sense soon.

Again observe the pic above. 

Instead of the necklace see that as the mouth of the old woman. It's not the ears of a young but eyes of the old woman. 

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Keep trying and you will be amazed to see the image of an old woman coming out of it. You would have to strain yourself a bit to see as it's different from what you happen to perceive it at first. 

When I came across this test at first it was difficult for me to figure out an old woman. I m sure it might have been difficult for u too.But what made it so difficult.? 

When our minds were absolutely clean we saw pic A and on having seen it an image was created in our minds. The moment pic B came in front of us we judged  it on basis of what image we had already seen in A. 

So we judged 2nd pic based on what we had seen in the 1st pic. 

WHAT WE WERE EXPOSED TO FIRST LEAVES BEHIND SUCH A BIG IMPACT ON HOW WE PERCEIVE THE THINGS THAT FOLLOW.  Let me put it in even more lucid terms. When u give toddler a round object to play n teach him that it's called a ball. The image of ball is created in his mind. Now next time he sees any exactly round colorful object be it an atlas or a round orange he would immediately try n run for it n call it a ball.!!!

Ok now connecting the two parts of the blog above- the picture and the questions I had asked at the beginning.

Minds of children are absolutely pure, clean and unadulterated. But before being exposed to the feeling of love, they are exposed to lust. Porn is so shit damn common. Watching porn is an individual adults choice. Porn is all about sense gratification and lust. It's not the truth. We know but kids don't. They being exposed to it is much more dangerous than we think it is.The lust is engraved in their minds leaving behind a great impact on how they perceive the opposite gender and sex.

Sex is certainly a beautiful aspect in our life. And a medium through which we express love. It's spiritual journey.(yes I mean spiritual). It's pure. It's divine. It's much beyond than just physical pleasure. If not why God would choose that as a medium for birth of a child and a beautiful journey called parenthood.?

But when the image of lust is already created. When porn seems to be apparent truth then whenever future events come up in their lives all they can relate to is lust. Be it in teacher, sister, fellow classmates and every woman around. How they are exposed to sex at first  defines how they see it in their life ahead. 

I end this article here with the current roar abt AIB video. It's an individual's right to enjoy that kind of humor. I m not against such shows being conducted. It's an art.  But uploading such videos in public domain where kids too have such an easy access? Are kids matured enough to distinguish the humor in it from reality?

Lastly i m just asking these two questions  n request u to ponder on them.
Isn't the mental health of the younger generation our responsibility.? 

Aren't we depriving them from the spiritual side of sex?


PIC C

PS : The Picture test in the blog is inspired from the book of Author Stephen R. Covey.